Let him chase you.
If you’re chasing a man and he’s playing hard to get – he’s not that into you. Sorry, kid. Let him come to you. Man’s DNA is to chase, to hunt and that’s not only to put dinner on the table. They want to pick their female and feast on their prize. You, my dear, are the prize. Know that.
What does that mean? It means no matter how much you want to text first – don’t! But always reply and a quick reply when you haven’t texted in three or four days is completely acceptable.
You don’t call to tell him about your day. If he wants to know about your day, he’ll ask. This should stay into effect until there is an established relationship or until he just never contacts you. In the latter case, you should move on.
Tell him what you want in the bedroom.
Every man loves to be told what to do in the bedroom. Whether they follow instruction or not is another blog article waiting to happen. Courage up the words and tell him exactly how you want it and when you want it.
If you are super shy, you should start out small. Tell him when to kiss you or the pace you prefer while having sex. A couple simple instructions can make him go wild.
Be a good woman.
A real man – regardless of his nature – will get turned on knowing that you’re a good mother, have career goals and can communicate.
If you’re not a good person than you probably won’t have a problem trying to fake-it until you make it. LOL, but I suggest that you get your shit together because that’s not going to last long.