{"id":17077,"date":"2016-01-29T20:41:28","date_gmt":"2016-01-30T01:41:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/awesomejelly.com\/?p=17077"},"modified":"2016-01-29T20:41:28","modified_gmt":"2016-01-30T01:41:28","slug":"her-boyfriend-picked-out-all-her-flaws-then-she-wrote-this-to-him-on-facebook","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/awesomejelly.com\/her-boyfriend-picked-out-all-her-flaws-then-she-wrote-this-to-him-on-facebook\/","title":{"rendered":"Her Boyfriend Picked Out All Her ‘Flaws’ & Then She Wrote This To Him On Facebook"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"jelly1\"<\/p>\n

Brittaney Lynn Shane<\/a>\u00a0was in a relationship with a man who over time, destroyed her confidence. Through constant jabs and the creation of ‘flaws’, Brittaney’s boyfriend belittled her, time and time again.<\/p>\n

The belittling eventually stopped, but only when Brittaney’s boyfriend left her for another woman. This guy moving on turned out to be the best thing that could ever happen to Brittaney. The events that took place during her\u00a0relationship with this man caused Brittaney to write the following post on her Facebook page. That post has gained well over 300k likes in just a few weeks time and sparked a wonderful conversation about what is right and what is wrong when it comes to how partners treat one another.<\/p>\n

\"girl1\"<\/p>\n

\u201cYou always told me I didn\u2019t look good with long hair and that you preferred girls with short hair.\u00a0So I kept my hair cut above my shoulders at all times.\u00a0You laughed at me and told me I looked ridiculous when I dyed my hair red when we were together. So a week later I dyed it back blonde.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\"girl2\"

Facebook \/ Brittaney Lynn Shane<\/p><\/div>\n

\u201cYou would always point out if I was wearing too much makeup. (Winged eyeliner and mascara most of the time)\u00a0So I just stopped wearing it.\u00a0You told me tattoos and piercings were tacky and ugly. And would try to take out my belly button ring every time you saw it.\u00a0So I took out my piercings and didn\u2019t get any more tattoos.<\/em><\/p>\n

You pointed out my stretch marks every chance you got. So I did my best to keep them hidden.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\"girl3\"

Facebook \/ Brittaney Lynn Shane<\/p><\/div>\n

\u201cYou pointed out every time I looked like I had gained weight. So I started eating less every day. You pointed out every single flaw I had.\u00a0So I lost every bit of confidence I had.<\/em><\/p>\n

I did everything I could to be what you wanted. I did everything you told me to do. It still wasn\u2019t good enough. You left me for a younger prettier girl. Someone you could mold and shape into what you wanted. Like you tried to do with me. And up until a few months ago I blamed myself for everything that happened. You blamed me too.<\/em><\/p>\n

But finally I started to see the truth.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\"girl4\"

Facebook \/ Brittaney Lynn Shane<\/p><\/div>\n

\u201cYou weren\u2019t out of my league. I was out of yours. I wasn\u2019t the one who wasn\u2019t good enough for you.<\/em><\/p>\n

You were the one who wasn\u2019t good enough for me. You couldn\u2019t accept me for who I was. When I took you the way you were.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\"girl5\"

Facebook \/ Brittaney Lynn Shane<\/p><\/div>\n

\u201cSo now here I am a few months later. My hair is past my shoulders. My hair is bright red. I\u2019ve got a new tattoo. New piercings. Started wearing makeup again. I eat whatever I want whenever I want and weigh 135 pounds. I still have my stretch marks.<\/em><\/p>\n

And I\u2019ve finally gotten my confidence back. I finally see myself looking back at me when I look in the mirror.\u00a0It\u2019s so hard for me to come out about this and admit that I became so vulnerable because of one guy. Something I always said would never happen. It\u2019s humiliating to even think about how low I got. But what gives me the guts to come out about this is the fact that I overcame it and I\u2019m finally back to who I really am.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\"girl6\"

Facebook \/ Brittaney Lynn Shane<\/p><\/div>\n

Such an amazing, inspiring young woman. We don’t know much about the idiot who left her, but boy oh boy did that guy ever make a mistake. He will be hard pressed to find such a beautiful woman both inside and out. Kudos to you Brittaney!\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"girl7\"

Facebook \/ Brittaney Lynn Shane<\/p><\/div>\n

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