In what universe would you ever want the person you happen to be dating to still be friends with their ex? And what more your spouse? Unless your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend happens to be gay after all, then there is really no reason to be friends with someone that you used to sleep with. One particular relationship expert explained what could happen in this particular situation, saying, “There’s mistrust, jealousy, and curiosity about whether or not the ex is actually over your partner (or the other way around.)” And really, no one needs that in the middle of the marriage.
