29 Things You’re Doing Wrong That Will Kill Your Marriage

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Always Wanting To Be In Control

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Having control issues or always wanting to be in control when it comes to your relationship will always become an issue. First of all, there are two people that make up a marriage, two people that need to decide on things, and two people that need to learn to compromise with each other. According to family law specialist Steve Mindel, “Many couples get into the dynamic of fighting for control, whether it is by trying to dominate the handling of financial issues, spending habits, or how to raise the kids. To keep a relationship healthy, the goal is to strive for balance. Sit down together and decide who gets to be the captain of what.” That way, there won’t be any power struggles from the get go, but rather a relationship based on compromise, understanding and a true give and take dynamic.